[转帖]你留意过你的父母吗？

<span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果你在一个平凡的家庭长大</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">, </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果你的父母还健在，不管你有没有和他们同住</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">—— </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发现厨房不再像以前那样整洁；</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
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        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发现母亲的锅子不再雪亮。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><br/>&nbsp; &nbsp;<span style="mso-sp: http://detail.zol.com.cn/Monitor_index/subcate8_218_list_1.html style=text-decoration:underline target=_blank&gt;Acer&lt;/a&gt;un: yes;">&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发现父亲的花草树木已渐荒废；如果有一天，你发现家中的地板衣柜经常沾满灰尘；</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
9 `: n2 x# w+ I9 x        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发现母亲煮的菜太咸太难吃；</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发现父母经常忘记关瓦斯；</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发现老父老母的一些习惯不再是习惯时，就像他们不再想要天天洗澡时。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><br/>&nbsp; &nbsp; <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发现父母不再爱吃青脆的蔬果；</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发现父母爱吃煮得烂烂的菜；如果有一天，你发现父母喜欢吃稀饭；</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
# x& K+ x& I5 R        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发现他们过马路行动反应都慢了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><br/>&nbsp; &nbsp;<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发现在吃饭时间他们老是咳个不停，千万别误以为他们感冒或着凉，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">(</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">那是吞咽神经老化的现象</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">) </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">；</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有一天，你发觉他们不再爱出门</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">…… </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果有这么一天，我要告诉你，你要警觉父母真的已经老了，器官已经退化到需别人照料了。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
; h: i9 x& I. p        </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">如果你不能照料，请你替他们找人照料，并请你请你千万千万要常常探望，不要让他们觉得被遗弃了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><br/>&nbsp; &nbsp; <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">每个人都会老，父母比我们先老，我们要用角色互换的心情去照料他，才会有耐心、才不会有怨言，当父母不能照顾自己的时候，为人子女要警觉，他们可能会大小便失禁、可能会很多事都做不好，如果房间有异味，可能他们自己也闻不到，请不要嫌他脏或嫌他臭，为人子女的只能帮他清理，并请维持他们的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">自尊心</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><br/>&nbsp; &nbsp; <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">当他们不再爱洗澡时，请抽空定期帮他们洗身体，因为纵使他们自己洗也可能洗不干净。当我们在享受食物的时候，请替他们准备一份大小适当、容易咀嚼的一小碗，因为他们不爱吃可能是牙齿咬不动了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><br/>&nbsp; &nbsp; <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;</span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">从我们出生开始，喂奶换尿布、生病的不眠不休照料、教我们生活基本能力、供给读书、吃喝玩乐和补习，关心和行动永远都不停歇。如果有一天，他们真的动不了了，角色互换不也是应该的吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><br/>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">为人子女者要切记，看父母就是看自己的未来，孝顺要及时。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><br/>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">树欲静而风不止、子欲养而亲不在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">——</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: green; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">你留意过自己的父母吗？</span>

<p>我係传统的中国人，所以我好孝顺噶～～</p>

有D野吾洗讲得太明...

<p>无奈~ 我成日都激佢地~唔声唔声唔睬佢地</p><p>但我系个好孝顺佢地嘅女!</p>

<p>呢個……我都唔知點講好</p><p>有D嘢唔係你想就可以做到ga</p>

<p>我绝对唔会送佢地去老人院噶!!</p><p>甘样做好似就等于已经遗弃左佢地甘~</p>

<p>睇完觉得有D似古巨基个首“爱得太迟”讲嘅嘢啊·····</p>

讲真,晤好同我讲呢D也,我喊噶

[UserName=quill] <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>quill</i>在2007-2-2 13:56:54的发言：</b><br/>讲真,晤好同我讲呢D也,我喊噶</div><p></p><p>有时觉得你地屋企都几得意噶~</p><p>&nbsp;话晒都系现代版小丸子家庭吖嘛~呵呵</p>[/UserName]你话系米先~
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<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>瞓々身</i>在2007-2-2 14:15:51的发言：</b><br/>你话系米先~<br/></div><p></p><p>小姐~~我个名无大写噶~~~</p><p>我咩都看唔到啊,你改下他拉~~~~~</p><p>我系quill&nbsp; not QUILL&nbsp;&nbsp; 啊</p>

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>quill</i>在2007-2-2 14:20:21的发言：</b><br/><p></p><p>小姐~~我个名无大写噶~~~</p><p>我咩都看唔到啊,你改下他拉~~~~~</p><p>我系quill&nbsp; not QUILL&nbsp;&nbsp; 啊</p></div><p></p><p>乜大小写都有区分咖,晕..........</p><p>我改左啦</p>

<p>搞错啊你`~~</p><p>写D甘的也给我看~~咩叫现代版小丸子啊~~~?</p><p>想死啊你啊~~~~还以为你写咩给我</p>