<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font size="3">有一天,柏拉圖問老師蘇格拉底什麼是愛情?老師就讓他先到到麥田裏去,摘一棵全麥田裏最大最金黃的麥穗來,期間只能摘一次,並且只可向前走,不能回頭。</font></span><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> q9 W7 D" B: D0 G6 _
<br/><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">柏拉圖於是按照老師說的去做了。結果他兩手空空的走出了田地。老師問他為什麼摘不到?</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">
. Z7 N0 X+ Y, _# v5 f <br/><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">他說:因為只能摘一次,又不能走回頭路,期間即使見到最大最金黃的,因為不知前面是否有更好的,所以沒有摘;走到前面時,又發決總不及之前見到的好,原來最大最金黃的麥穗早已錯過了;於是我什麼也沒摘。</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">
. b) z* V' q) n" T) f4 { <br/><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">老師說:這就是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">愛情</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">
, R! d9 q5 P" X( A* D <br/><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">之後又有一天,柏拉圖問他的老師什麼是婚姻,他的老師就叫他先到樹林裏,砍下一棵全樹林最大最茂盛、最適合放在家作聖誕樹的樹。其間同樣只能砍一次,以及同樣只可以向前走,不能回頭。</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">" y- y; t' r% L+ ~+ B9 g
<br/><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">柏拉圖於是照著老師的說話做。今次,他帶了一棵普普通通,不是很茂盛,亦不算太差的樹回來。老師問他,怎麼帶這棵普普通通的樹回來,他說:</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">有了上一次經驗,當我走到大半路程還兩手空空時,看到這棵樹也不太差,便砍下來,免得錯過了後,最後又什麼也帶不出來。</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">” <br/><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">老師說:</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">這就是婚姻!</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”<br/><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">根據此類典故</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">西方學者又在近代提出了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">"</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">柏拉圖式愛情</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">"</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">的說法。</span></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br/><br/></span><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">柏拉圖式愛情,以西方哲學家柏拉圖命名的一種異性間的精神戀愛,追求心靈溝通,排斥肉欲。最早由</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">Marsilio Ficino</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">於</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">15</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">世紀提出,作為蘇格拉底式愛情的同義詞,用來指代蘇格拉底和他學生之間的愛慕關係</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">. <br/><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">柏拉圖式的愛情有以下的意義</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">: 1. </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">男女平等的愛情觀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">2. </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在這世上有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">且僅有一個人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">對你而言</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">她</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">他</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">是完美的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">而且僅對你而言是完美的。也就是說</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">任何一個人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">都有其完美的物件</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">而且只有一個</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">而那一個人大多數都不會是你的婚姻對象</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; 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<br/><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">柏拉圖認為人們生前和死後都在最真實的觀念世界</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在那裏</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">每個人都是男女合體的完整的人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">到了這世界我們都分裂為二。所以人們總覺得若有所失</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">企圖找回自己的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">"</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">另一半</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">"(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">這個詞也來自柏拉圖的理論</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。柏拉圖也用此解釋為什麼人們會有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">戀情</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">。</span></font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">
) c& n9 B" T' s0 s <br/><br/></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在他的理論中</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">沒有那一半是比較重要的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">所以</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">男女是平等的。而且</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在觀念世界的你的原本的另一半就是你最完美的物件。他</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">/</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">她</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">
4 X9 N: E- C! b5 @8 O* y </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">就在世界的某個角落</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">, </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">也正在尋找著你。</span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span></font> </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span></font> </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><font color="#6f916f" size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><strong>人生本來就是要尋尋覓覓 ~~~</strong></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p></p></span></font> </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><p><font size="3"> </font></p></span></p><p> </p> |
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