<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>ikuyori</i>在2006-10-31 5:22:43的发言:</b><br/><p> 爱是知道如何放手,放手也是爱的一部分。我们爱上一个人,多多少少是因为在他身上看到自己或</p><p>自己所向往的个性。爱一个人,就是像爱自己那样爱他,爱他的同时,也是自我的成长。爱是自我</p><p>的延伸,但是,那并不代表你拥有对方。<br/></p><p> 我们不拥有任何人,相爱是一种默契,有一天,当其中一个要离开,我们得要去尊重他的选择。这</p><p>当然不容易,那一刻,你会想起过去的欢乐,怀念一起向往过的未来,所有的不甘心都会涌上心</p><p>头,怎么肯放手?然而,不肯舍弃并不代表你能留得住。如果你对一个人的爱是深刻的,你会为他</p><p>的选择而放手。我放手,不是因为我不再爱你,而是我爱过你,而且仍然爱你。舍弃也是需要勇气</p><p>的。</p><br/></div><p></p><p>It's very easy to say but hard to do -- how can you let go and respect the other person's choices when you are still in love with him / her? Unless you're already over him / her when he / she says goodbye to you.......</p>
<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>cicilau21</i>在2006-11-13 16:19:00的发言:</b><br/><p></p><p>It's very easy to say but hard to do -- how can you let go and respect the other person's choices when you are still in love with him / her? Unless you're already over him / her when he / she says goodbye to you.......</p></div><p>I know it's hard to make a choice but sometime you're not able to be with him /her. you have no point to continue </p>